January 28, 2010
Do You Have Anger Management Problems?
I had a business teacher once who told us that he knew a man who had a business that whenever anyone got to angry at someone they were to go into the basement and break these plates. The man had 100′s of boxes of plates. So they would smash them against the wall. ( and no I do not know who would clean them up, so don’t ask me).
Have you found an alternative to yelling and screaming at people with some other form of activity?
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I think so, to a certain degree. I’m asking Jesus to curb my tongue so I can express myself without making the situation much worse. It’s working, and I have to pray about it everyday. Maybe one day it will come more easily with practice.
Talking and listening work fairly well with rational people. You might need a cool down period to get to that point, but it ought to come, and then when it down, sit down and talk respectfully to each other. Be meek, firm and clear all at once. Once you’re yelling no one will hear what you have to say anyway. And once you loose your calm, you’ve undone all the good you had accomplished in the relationship before that. That’s what my religion teaches…so if you allow yourself to yell and scream at someone, you then have to start building rapport with them as if you just met them. All the good you may have done for years is gone between you. Meekly or gently speak clearly and firmly, and that will show respect. If you show respect, sooner or later, you will also get respect. And when people respect each other more, there’s less anger and yelling and screaming. Positive feedback loop.
That would be another hang-up to replace anger. Does not really settle it, just displaces it against inanimate object plates. Some people take out doors, or worse hit others.
Why not give it to our Lord, ask Him to heal you of this.
Hatred (Anger) is the poison you prepare for your enemy, and end up taking yourself. It works for me.
Yes, throwing them out of my office on their butt.
I have anger management issues or so my boss tells me.
The fellow employees don’t but my boss disagrees anyways.
No I don’t have an anger issue.
Although, I do get up set when someone always has to have
some dumb, stupid sarcastic remark of some kind or another.
I usually just roll my eyes and think “Oh, brother”
Ozzie you are funny…
Blessings to you !!!
When i get mad at people i learned to just not say anything to them and stay away from them and not be in their company any kind of way to keep the peace.
I used too. Then I took a course at “O.J. Simpsons School for anger Managment”
I’m awite now.