Do You Think Its A Question Of Low Self Esteem If A Black Lesbian Prefers To Date White Lesbians?

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When you meet an interracial lesbian relationship, do you chalk it up to the black woman’s low self esteem?

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January 22, 2010

Black Rose Plays Dress-Up @ 2:14 am #

Depends on why. If you feel the need to justify your relationship by putting women of other races down, to me, that is low self-esteem. I don’t have a problem with interracial relationships, as long as you see them as a person, not a white person, a black person, but just Katie, or Karen.
It doesn’t make you have low self esteem to prefer to date white girls. Just like it doesn’t make me a bigot to prefer other black girls.

Talk Softly & Carry a BIG Stick! @ 3:22 am #

No. I’m in an interracial marriage. I’ve dated women of all colors, including black. My self esteem is good to go. Skin color’s just a preference, & nothing to be knocked for. Granted, there are some women who have issues over their culter/heritage, but I think the majority of people date whomever they’re comfortable with.
I know I have, & have no regrets.

Me F. @ 8:09 am #

yeah!
just like blacks who date whites HATE themselves.
Totally makes sense, right?
What about the white woman’s self esteem? You make assumptions that by dating a white woman, this makes up for a persons sense of self-worth?
Is it possible for a white woman to date a black woman because she freaking loves herself to bits and wouldn’t want anyone else?

Wastelan @ 11:20 am #

no… i think it might be just what you prefer, like big *** or small ***… i don’t know…. it’s confusing, you’re confusing! because there are some hot black lesbians out there! i love girls w/ big asses and stuff…. so i don’t know…

?The Pro_B Rocc? @ 1:36 pm #

No not really, usually I think they may have had bad experience with black women and wanted to try something different. but you can’t help who you fall for sometimes and everyone has their “type”

heidi905 @ 3:20 pm #

Black Rose it right. I like black woman..nothing wrong with that.

Mirage @ 4:59 pm #

People are attracted to what their heart desires – go figure…

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