How Can I Have A Positive Attitude , When Everything Goes Wrong?

We are cursed with expectations. Wrong is only a judgment. Usually when we judge something wrong it is because we “expected” something else, something better, something right, something good, etc. If one can learn to appreciate the only real thing we have and that is this very moment, and have a positive attitude for what you have, then the future becomes only a thought and it will take care of itself.

Firstly u have to understand why things happened. Everything happened for a reason. And there’s always 2 sides of a coin.
For example; ur car broke down in the middle of the town on ur way to work. U can either be mad coz u’ll be late for work or u can be grateful it doesn’t broke down some where in a remote area. It’s ur choice. If u are a positive type of person, u would choose the latter. Always remember that there is always the bright side of thing for u to choose.
Next is to understand why it happened. Look at it this way. If the car doesn’t broke down when it did, u could be involved in a traffic accident up ahead of the road. It also teaches u how to be a better person by being cool about it, having patience, proactively takes care of ur car in the future, etc.
Another example is, say u broke-up with ur girlfriend. Don’t be sad. Maybe a better girlfriend is on the way.
Always remember these laws of universe;
1- b4 thing can get better, it has to go bad first (learn from ur mistakes),
2- b4 better thing can comes in, bad thing has to go first.
There4, u have no choice but to view everything positively.

masturbate….and no i’m not joking and this is not a ‘troll’ giving a fake answer
i am a short asian with no friends, no girlfriend, no job, lives at home with parents, suffere from depression from all the abuse whilst growing up, by white kids and other douches
I try repeatedly to get jobs here in australia but i get rubbish results and even if i DO get an interview i get the “your perfect in the interivew but you didn’t show enough confidence”…wtf does that mean??
confidence comes within time and it comes as you learn from the job for christs sake. I had a group interview once and i didn’t get the job because i “Didn’t get up to show my enthusiasm enough”. wtf is with all these personality tests?? the group interview had alot of teenagers for crying out loud, i was the oldest and have been out of work for a long time, thus I should be the highest priority as a job seeker, i have work experience, a degree, a diploma and some TAFE certificates…i proved my sales ability in the group interview but nah lets ruin my chance for employment because i “Didn’t get up enough”…god i hate this fking country sometimes.
Went for a job interview at ‘fitness first’ (gym) for a sales person…i knew how racist this country was and knew i would get crap, boy was i right, i was thinking it whilst looking at this HUGE italian looking guy, he comes up to me, he starts looking me up and down repeatedly (once is rude and obvious enough) but he did it repeatedly like he was stating “wtf is a short asian guy like YOU doing here”
if you have friends and a close family (which i don’t) i say utliize that to keep your spirits high…i’ve practically given up, pron and downloading tv shows/movies and all things torrent is the only thing keeping me sane. Yes i still look for work, so i haven’t given up totally, but seriously…….i’ve gotten to the point where i think….”why bother, god if only i won the lotto right now”
those that say money isn’t everything are a bunch of F**kwits.

Set goals and Improve your attitude
Sit down and write out what you have to be grateful for. Get at least 15 items.
Are you having a tough time? Think about who loves me. What can I do know that I could not do before?
Are you still having a tough time? Go to Wal-Mart. The Wal-Mart I go to employs greeters who are wheel chair bound. Go to any big chain store and look around. You will see people who have trouble walking, dressed in rags, and some going to the sample displays to get their only meal

Think of it like this, nothing good ever came from sobbing, for anyone, it doesn’t accomplish anything. You have to fight in life, that’s the way it is, but try to have a little fun while doing so.What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, the only thing Nietzshe said which made sense…

see the good thing behind every wrong turn
u should note down the lessons that u get from the failure and note it down with the date
so when u see it u will have a clear vision what u should do now
next be sure that what ever happens life have to go on
all the best

good question just relax for sometime and think over the problem and just think how you can solve it and never think of that i cannot do this or that. just neglect the negetive attitude
all the best

Balance it out with some vodka, and you won’t give a sh*t about having positive or negative attitudes like the rest of us degenerates.

It may seem that way. But, keep your chin up. We need more people with positive attitudes. Don’t let the negative people pull you down.

well, i can see that you don’t know me becouse everything goes wrong for me too but there’s always something good. what are those things?

Think of how much worse it could be but isn’t. Are you dead? Is someone you love dead? If not things aren’t that bad.

of course you can!!!