How Can I Make My Wife Have High Self Esteem, And Positive Attitude?

Hey, are you the same guy who is into porn on the internet? Do you go to the strip bars? Do you slobber over other chicks?
Then I can’t figure out why she has low self esteem. Beats me, hot pants.
After all, actions speak louder than words…

don’t “make” her anything. If YOU hold her in high esteem it will take eventually.

You can’t make her do anything. Apparently she has a wrong way of thinking that was probably shaped in her childhood. She needs therapy or self-help books to unravel the mess.

Stop talking and show her take her out show her off let her hear you bragg about her on the phone you will be surprised how a woman will blush when she hears how crazy her husband talks about her to his friends . Makes her feel she is the envy of your group because you talk to them about her. buy her a rose because its wednesday Friday take her out for a candy bar its the littles things that destroys the big ugly things.
And another thing you can do i know it sounds crazy but sit your wife down and ask her who in her past has spoken to her or taken advantage of her before you met her because someone has left residuals and its rearing its ugly head .
once you find out it could have been a teacher who said something out the way , a fake friend could of set her up to embarrass her in the 2nd grade you will be surprised I counsel women everyday and the stuff I deliver them from is unreal but its enough to hinder their esteem
So clear her past so you can have a brighter future together be blessed and good luck

If you have tried everything and no results, maybe you should get her into counseling.

Good luck buddy, my husband try to give me high self esteem and positive attitude.
To tell you the truth i personally think self esteem and positive attitude has allot to do with growing up the way you were raised and the experience you had in the past. It might take a long time for her confidence to show but you keep up your good work and on supporting her in every way you can by telling her all these positive things. you might not see it but it dose help her allot.

You need to compliment your wife. Make her feel how special you keep her. Let her know how much support she has from you then slowly guide her through wieght loss and emotions.

nothing, you can’t change people’s attitude towards life, that is their job. All you can do is have positive attitude and high self esteem yourself in hopes that they will reflect on her.

Well your probably not active in your love live or the flame of passion just left. ask her what she wants and do it. the mind of the female is mostly connected by emotions try to reach them by doing various activities.

A little therapy might help but the big question here is why does she feel this way?

maybe send her to a shrink. my ex-girlfriend was depressed because she was raped as a child.

have u complimented her, made her feel safe in the relationship, do u value her, and value her opinions. did u ask her if she was willing to go to therapy with you? u just have to show her that u love her no matter what is in her past.

saying and doing are two different things. hold the door open for her, send her flowers from time to time. rave about her cooking. leave her romantic messages, take her out. at least she can then say that she has self esteem when she is around you. also if its general tell her to pick up a hobby like scuplting or dancing it will definitely pick up confidence