How Can I Raise My Self-esteem After Being Called Ugly Behind My Back?

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My mom is making me go to a low self-esteem class which makes it even lower because it’ll be embarrassing to go. I’ve heard a few people calling me ugly behind my back and I say that everything is wrong with me. Some people get ahold pictures of me, post them online, and I get made fun of from people online, still has it low. I can’t get a decent picture of me without having it at least three yards away.

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February 9, 2010

Sally @ 9:47 am #

Ignore them. Honestly, do their opinions really matter? In 10 years will you be seeing them? Definitely not! The world is so large that the ****** group you’re talking about makes up .0000000001% of the world. That’s nothing. Who cares about them. Honestly! I can understand how going to a low self-esteem class can be embarrassing, but in the long run they are going to initially tell you the same thing I’m telling you now. They teach you how to deal with cruel people. It’s not you…it’s them! I think the class has a lot to offer. People that make fun of you disgust me. They don’t understand or appreciate beauty. Nowadays if you’re not wearing cake makeup and slutty clothes that’s considered ugly. Just know that you are a beautiful person and don’t let anyone take that away from you! When they call you ugly they are passively aggressively trying to raise their self esteem. It’s like being with a pack of wolves. When one person attacks you others will follow because they see you as an easy target. Keep your head up!! Also, education is a real self esteem raiser and it’s considered super sexy. I know it sounds stupid, but it really is. I always feel great when I can jump into a political conversation or a conversation that a lot of people can’t understand.

Sabi A @ 12:36 pm #

omg! don’t say that i’m pretty sure your really pretty, and the people who call you ugly are ugly from the inside and don’t go to any stupid class i mean there are other ways to raise you self-esteem i mean don’t listen to anyone have a fun time with your friends, and even if any one is ugly that shouldn’t let you stop having fun i mean enjoy your life, God made you the way you are and you should be proud of it =)

Sophie @ 7:15 pm #

o my goodness
i GARENTEE you are NOT NOT NOT ugly.
If people are calling you ugly they are either blind or jelous. all girls are pritty– no matter what
if you think makeup would make you prittyer than go to macys, nordstrom, or sephora and secudal a consalation– they will pick out makeup that looks good w/ ur eye color skin tone ect and show you how to put it all on
And i think for the low self-essteem class, just go along with it, its clear that your mom wont change her mind, and it might actually help you.
ps go to cvs and load up on skin cleaners, and stuff so your skin stays clear– if you dnt already have acne you DO NOT WANT IT!!!
hope i helped :D :D :D
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