How Can I Remain Happy In Once Again Another Pregnancy By Myself?

hi! well you’re not alone, you have your beautiful 7 year old to share this experience with! i know its not normal family dynamics but it will work if you try. just imagine her face when she gets to see her little brother or sister for the first time in an u/s! i think the only problem could be after the baby is born and your daughter realizes first hand that a baby takes alot of mommy’s attention. when this happens, have a friend, your mom, or relative watch the baby for a few hours so you can spend time with just your daughter. good luck! you will do fine!

I don’t know what its like to be a single mother, but I have only heard about it. And it is a struggle, but it is attainable and it can be done. This is not the end, you will find love again, and it will be with the right person. Maybe it wasn’t God’s plans for you to be with the father of your children. It was probably best that way, another man who is greater than him is waiting for you. Maybe your are looking for love in all the wrong places. A good man will come along, and might want to marry you, accept those kids as his and adopt them. There is a lot of hope for the future. But for now focus on that beautiful child that’s going to be born soon. You are blessed, not too many women can bare children and I know many women who would do anything to be in your shoes. Enjoy, and live life b/c you only get one shot at it. Don’t waste your time being sad, b/c tomorrow is never promised to us.

I think you answered your own question. Just look at your daughter and think of how lucky you are. She is your happiness.

its been 7 yrs u and ur daughter, now with one on the way i bet she will be over the moon chin up xx gl

Your babies are blessings, not mistakes. Even though you didn’t know things would turn out this way, God did, and he loves you and your babies.
You, your daughter, and your baby to be all have a wonderful, joyful, exact purpose here on earth, don’t doubt it.
It took the exact mixture of you and your babies’ dads to make your children, and God has plans for them and for you. Wonderful, good plans.

You find joy in child and the happiness that it will bring you not in the wrong/bad decision. When you see the smile on their faces, you’ll find that happiness. Your daughter will be happy to have a little baby bro. or sis.
Keep your head up girl and remember that the best is YET to come!

Look at your little girl and take pride in the fact that you did that…you gave her life and raised her to be the person that she is. You are stronger than your giving yourself credit for. I truly believe God does not give us more than we can handle. It is very hard sometimes but we get through it. Your little girl is old enough to remember things now, and I’m sure you want her to learn that your a strong woman who doesn’t need to be dependent on man. You can do this…One day at a time.