How Can You Make Yourself Happy, When You Dont Know What Makes You Happy In The 1st Place?

you don’t “make yourself happy”. If you can walk, talk, taste, smell, see, and hear…Then there are 6 reasons to be happy right there. If you were to lose even one of those capabilities, then you would understand how much worse things could be. However, you mean relationship wise.
If you are in a relationship with someone then odds are that the two of you found things in each other that you liked and made the two of you happy. So, figure out what went wrong and see if you can fix it. The number one reason for relationship failures or lack of progress, is the lack of communication. Communication allows you to figure out what makes each other happy, mad, sad, what each other likes to do and don’t do, what your favorite colors, movies, actors are, what your religion is or isn’t….etc I could go on and on. Like i said communication is the key. The make or break of everything. So, if you say to your self what went wrong and the answer would be for example(s): he doesn’t give you enough attention, he likes to do only the stuff he likes to do, he never compliments you, he is jealous or possessive, he expects to much from you etc. Ask yourself this, Have I(you) told him about the things that bother me? If the answer is yes then maybe you are communicating and he isn’t. So tell him he needs to communicate with you. We all expect so much of each other but half the time we don’t know what each other wants. Due to lack of communicating. Most of the time people start dating before they even know each other. Normally based on looks. Well, looks only go so far. I have dated beautiful girls who were self centered or heartless. So after a while I was like srew that. Looks are great but not at the cost of happiness. When you are with someone, the two of you should always want to know what to do to make each other happy. As long as neither of you are self centered then it should be effortless. Well, I hope what I have said is helpful. Good luck.

If you are in a relationship and you are not happy, think about what you want and need from the relationship and try to work with your partner to improve the relationship which might also require counseling. If you can’t work on improving the relationship then you can either stay in it and continue being unhappy or get out of it and find one that works for you.

nobody really knows how to be happy. the only way to be really is to go for salvation. Coz all happiness, or seeming happiness, has to paid for by sadness. There is no value of light if there is no dark.
Read George Bernard.

sounds like your putting too much thought into this… Think CONTENT. Not giddy in love or blissful happiness. Just happy with situation ..

well first you need to think about it. has anything made u laugh are think of happy thoughts like read a poem or a funny moment. anything

relax…fill your tub with hot water and bubbles think about things and the happy memories in life…i hope that will help:)

I keep trying things till I find something.
Doesn’t always work, but sometimes it does.
If no success try Rx.