February 23, 2010
How Do I Be Happy When Everything Goes Wrong Lately?
that’s pretty much it, how? I want to move away I hate everything and all my surroundings I can’t be happy when I don’t want to be here. Just got out of a 3 year break up and I’ve been sad now I’m just pissed and getting sad again it’s only been a week I wanna beat ***
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You need to look to your faith..whatever religion you are and take a deep breath and calm down..always remember things could be worse and everything happens for a reason..maybe you broke up with that person because one day they would abuse you or maybe you broke up with them because theres someone better out there for you..
bottom line..look at things from a different perspective..everything happens for a reason.
For starters, try to keep the use of anything addictive to a minimum. The more you use something to help yourself out of a depression, the worse it will be when you come out of it. Take your time, try to find simple things to entertain you and keep your mind off of the issue. Maybe even a friend or family member could come along and help. Small things like puzzles or listening to music or playing an instrument can relieve stress. There is even aromatherapy if you wish to try that. If you must move from where you are, however, try to keep under control now so you can plan. The worst thing to do is rush out while already feeling down, just to find yourself in a horrid situation with nowhere to go. I sure hope conditions improve for you…
You are going to be sad for awhile. Just let yourself feel the pain because that is what ultimately heals your heart. People try to mask it and don’t feel the pain by alcohol, drugs, another relationship, whatever. But the only true healing comes from feeling the pain. It’s kind of like scar tissue to a wound.
this last 6 months last, I was so depressed about where i was, and was just in a dark place and my only advice even though it isn’t some huge new revelation is …….there is always the future even if it isn’t the near future.
yesterday is done, today is almost gone, but tomorrow is a new day.
i think there are many options. So many things have happened to me but there is always a bright side. I mean if you are religious, look to God and thank him for what little is right. Or you can just be glad somehting like you being terminally ill is not happening. ORR, you can contact me. Im willing to listen :]
everything in my life is going wrong as well family dies lil cousin lost 2 fingers lost job broke as a joke. best why to get away for me is music to make your self happy treat yourself to something nice spoil yourself for a day.
You could talk to me if you want to, I’m pretty sure I could make you happy.
Find something you really like to do. Like a new hobby or something.
Drink alot. Don’t enter coma.
if you dont like where you are then leave. but true happiness comes from within