How Do People Usually Feel Or Treat People With Low Self Esteem?

People with low self esteem tend to treat themselves badly, not care too much about their appearance, or dress in a way to grab attention. We treat people the way they present themselves. If you don’t appear to care about yourself and are sloppy and put yourself down a lot, I probably will not take the time to get to know you. I will treat you with resepect because you are a fellow human being, but I probably won’t find you interesting. I have high self esteem although I had to learn that. I used to have low self esteem until I woke up one day and decided that the problem with the way people treated me was the way I was treating myself.

As someone who struggles with insecure feelings though people are always commending me about different things, I can tell you from experience that usually people tell others with low self-esteem to “get over it” or “it’s not that bad”.