January 27, 2010
How Do You Keep A Positive Attitude When You Feel Like Your Enviornment Is Not The Best?
life of divorced kids.
we have to deal with being the best for each parent and making them happy. and going back and forth sucks. what makes it even worse is when you move to ones house when the other disapproves.then your treated different then before
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Hi there,
I know things r hard for u and the others. It was very good of u to write someone for advice.
Anyways, like i said it isn’t easy, but u will eventually adjust to it. It will soon become a routine. and when u don’t see one of them for a week or whatever, when u do, spend the time w/ one of your parents make sure it is quality time, fun. Don’t carry the resentment with you to their homes, I know that is going to be hard, but believe it or not, it wasn’t easy for them to get a divorce/separation. The hardest part is not living under the same roof.
Sounds like u or someone recently moved. If u r being treated different is because that person is upset/mad kind of. well basically (pissed off) excuse the language, but OMG< i had to get to the point.
Also the parent that is mad is also in a way jealous that u or whoever, choose one over the other. I am sure u didn’t do that. I am sure for what ever reason u had to move there is a reason. That is your business. There will be a day when u r ready to explain yourself to your parents.
What U should do, is get both parents together, wherever they r comfortable. All of you explain to them how u feel, if u have , do it again. Tell them you shouldn’t have to go through what u r. Tell them u have other things going on in your life right now and u want to enjoy the Time that u spend with each one. But, u also want to enjoy the time u have w/ your friends and school or whatever, but u can’t because, right now u r stressed out about how they r treating u or one of them treating u.
Just remember, both of your parents love you. Both would do anything for u. They r just angry at life right now. U kids stick together and be good/but have fun too.
This happens so much everywhere in the world. I know, u probably thought something like this would never happen to u.
Let me tell u something to remember always. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT TOMORROW WILL BRING.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO SOMEONE U LOVE.
TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY U WANT TO BE TREATED.
U have your whole life ahead of u, reach for the stars. Don’t hold back on this situation. If u have to go to a guidance counselor at school or call the 1-800 for Crisis and Counseling and they can talk to you and you don’t have to give them your name or anything.
take care,
I hope things work out just the way u want.
At least you have both parents that still love you.My parents divorced when I was 4 never have seen him since.