I really need to get organized and behave more so can you please help me ?
You see I never seem happy and I always seem stressed out and it makes me depressed . I have a very messy room that I want to finish but I always give up and loose intrest . I really want my room to be awsome and cool . Another problem is I have a high temper that gets me in trouble and I really want to behave . Lots of people don’t understand that I’m a big dreamer in life and that I want to make this world a better world and when people never understand me I get very mad !!! A big problem is my family pets ! Oh boy I’m sure made at them because they are using my special items and webkinz as a chew toy and I break down when that happens ! I need answers to my problems and I can not take this trouble any more !Also my sister is always bne bossy and trying to control and ruin my life and she already has to see doctors for her problems and waht makes me sad is she doesn’t love me . So what I need help with is my High temper , behavior , my sister , my room and everything I said . Help !
I dug myself in a deep enough hole and need help getting out but I’m stuck on want to do . That’s why I’m asking this question !
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Maybe you need meds.
Don’t get mad, I’m just trying to help.
i seem to be a lot like you
the room
and high temper
but i started seeing a guidence counceler and it’s helped a lot
you should to
Sounds like you need God.
You have a severe problem with not having your inner balance. I know from your question you are young, so maybe the way things seem to you are not as bad as they actually are.
Your sister probably loves you, but she’s going through her own problems.
You get angry because you have no control over things, but think you do.
Your room: Find something out of place and pick it up. Once that’s put away do it again and again until your room is picked up. Seeing as how you’re still at home there’s not much you can do to your room as far as changing it. Try getting some pictures or posters that are awe inspiring.
Go to church, even if your parents don’t. Find a friend at school that does and go with them. You don’t have to believe. There are kids and people there that can give you a different outlook on your life.
You can’t change your sister’s behavior, but you can be nice to her and help her with things.
And keep your stuff put away if you don’t want your pets chewing on it.
One thing at a time and try not to daydream until things are done. Use cleaning your room and picking up around the house as therapy to deal with anger. As you pick up you will see definite results that you are making a difference.
If your old enough move out simple; get a job, and find your own space.
You no longer will be concentrating on your sister issue or the pets you will be concern with mortgage or rent and the necessary of buying or renting a space of your own. Can’t guarantee your room will be clean, or that this will get you organize, but if you are somewhat of a neat personalty then buy organizing storage furnishing from folders, to drawers, start with small bins, for your drawers, and put every thing in the place you find suitable.
“The world needs dreamers. And, the world needs doers. But, what the world needs most are dreamers who can do.” Do not think something is going to change in your world to suddenly wake you up. The world is full of sleeping sheep. You WILL waste your entire life if you don’t wake yourself up, stop being a sheep, take charge, become the master of your own destiny, get self-motivated and self-directed and ride your passion like a bronco. And, if you fail to do so, you may whine and have temper fits and flail about and wail and blame everyone else for the rest of your worthless, wasted life. But, those of us who have risen above that pathetic wasteland of mediocrity will secretly laugh at you and know it was all your own fault.