February 12, 2010
Is It An Insecurity When Someone Needs A Romantic Partner To Be Happy?
My friend and other people tell me I need a girlfriend, but I say I don’t really need that, it might be nice once a good one comes along, but I’m happy by myself. I don’t understand why some people go to find someone else right after their previous relationship is done. Do they really need that to be content? Doesn’t that show low self-esteem?
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I know exactly where your coming from. When someone had just gotten out of a relationship they may automatically go looking for or start a new one. They feel they need someone to help them get over their previous one, or they feel that they always need someone to fulfill their emotional needs. When just getting out of a relationship, one should take some time to think about what they’ve learned about themselves and what they want in the next relationship before jumping to the next. I personally don’t feel that I need a relationship. I spend a lot of time alone or sometime with friends, doing this has helped me to know who I really am and what I want and that is the key to a healthy relationship. But like you said if someone nice comes along I would be willing to give it a shot…lol.
if they need it to be happy, it is an insecurity, so they probably have low self-esteem.
I think so, I feel the same way. My mom is always on my case to get a bf, she thinks it’ll make all better. But its only pissing me off….