Is It Possible To Live Alone And Be Happy?

Well, I CHOOSE to be alone aside from casual acquaintances. I enjoy meeting people and talking to people on a superficial level. I don’t want to connect with anyone on a deeper level because it seems the more you know about someone, the more you’re likely to be disappointed. People leave, let you down and change.
I feel like I’m a kindred spirit and I enjoy my own company. I like being fiercely independant NOT codependant on others for my happiness and identity. I have made a conscious decision to be this way because I find it empowering and free from social drama and let-downs.
So there you go, that’s my perspective.
Oh, I should add, I’m happier now than I’ve ever been. Good luck.

It is possible to be happy and live alone. Especially in your case. You cannot depend on people for everything. I went through a terrible break up – I was forced to live alone – I hated every minute of it. I was new to the area and new no one. I made myself hit the local bar on the corner each Friday night – I took a book and my computer and sat there – eventually people came up to me to ask what I was doing (usually) work – I made friends, etc and all was great!
Oh, to be able to live alone again!!! I am jealous!

I am often happy when I am alone, so yes I think it is possible. Perhaps you could find some interests to fill your off-work hours. I am sorry you are feeling bad and find it hard to connect with people. If you are not the type who likes to be alone, I would suggest trying some of these ideas:
1. Take some classes
2. Volunteer
3. Have some pets
4. Take up babysitting
5. Find a roommate
6. Join an exercise class
7. Join a church
8. Learn a new hobby
9. Read books
10. Learn an instrument
I hope things soon improve for you and I am so sorry you are feeling bad. Yes, I do think its possible to be alone and be happy.

yes it is possible to live that way, however one would need to be of a certain persuasion and it would seem you are not of this type .. the fact that you asked this question shows that you are not happy living this way …force yourself …get out ,join clubs maybe which appeal to you …

Yes of course aloneness is not the same as loneliness, many people do it out of choice, someone once said that the less you have a need to be with someone the more intelligent you are.

To live alone sure it i but to not have human contact and social abilities it is not..If your loss was a death get involved with a group that has gone through this also..you will find comfort in this and with them

I’m not sure what your major loss was, so it’s hard to address that part of it in any detail. But, I do sense that you need help dealing with that first, and foremost. Obviously, you are struggling with that in a big way, and you need support and guidance with it. So, I encourage you to seek out whatever support group or counseling that’s available to you to help you deal with that part of your life right now. As far as your problems with making friends and your other challenges in life, the help you get may even help you with that. No one should have to face things alone, or go through life alone, and it’s just not healthy to do, anyway. It may sound weird to you, and maybe you’re just not interested in something like this, but, a pet may do wonders for you! When I was at my lowest, and very alone in my own life, I found that my pet(s) were a lifesaver for me! I mean that, literally. I got so down at times that I lost all interest in life, and my pet(s) gave me a reason to go on living, and loving, and laughing. I had something to think about besides myself… something to care for… and something to love me in return… unconditionally. When I thought I had nothing left to offer, they reminded me that I was still important to them. They sensed my pain and my need, and responded with the most amazing insightfulness and compassion, and were always attentive when I needed it most. They brought me out of my depression and made me realize that even God’s little creatures can be a blessing in a persons life. I am an animal lover, though, and not all people are. But, I believe in the power of love, regardless of where it comes from! Whatever your loss was, I am so sorry. But, you owe it to yourself to try to rise above it and find some joy in your life. Whatever it takes, please do it for yourself… you deserve it! Life really can be wonderful if you let it be, and I hope you will find that to be true for yourself!