Ladies – If you have a male mate, and he appreciates seeing an attractive woman, should you be happy for him?

Honestly, I’d want all his attention..maybe get a bit jealous..I’m kinda selfish though lol.

Eventually a woman will learn to ignore it. The problem when most guys look at these skinny, big boobed girls, is that it makes the girl you are with feel extremely down and pressured that she has to look like that for you to look at her and go ‘wow you look amazing’ or something if you don’t say that already.

Its not really selfishness, or self-centered, its that we try to look good, and then men go and dribble over the ones caked in make up, mini skirts, extremely skinny tops, and shiz!

Would be fine if she was naturally beautiful really xD and not photo shopped.

I doubt seeing a random chick would make him SO happy, but judging by your logic, we should be happy for anyone who is made happy by ANYTHING…some people are made happy by committing hate crimes.

That’s cool if he finds other girls attractive..I’ll find other guys attractive as well…but if he becomes so happy that he’s jumping out of his skin because he simply saw an attractive female, that’s a problem.

Are you the same guy who posted about how any woman who would not hook a male virgin up with her friends to help him out and make him happy is cold-hearted?

as it is inherent in male DNA to look at other women they find attractive i find it a bit ridiculous to be offended that they are aroused by other women… that being said a man should be respectful of his female partner (or same sex partner if one swings that way) what this means yes we as women (or same sex males) know you look at other women (or other men) however you should make a point to try and not to do it in front of us, or at the very least not be so obvious about looking…….
the same is to be said about women who look at other men (or other women as with same sex couples)

it is not being selfish, or egotistical, or insecure, or not wanting a partner to be happy, it is just asking for common courtesy

This happens to most girls (am I right ladies?) and all it does is make us self conscious and jealous unless the woman is very secure in herself. We want to become even better for the guy we’re with even though we can’t and that hurts. Normally I just shrug it off and check out my shirtless neighbour working out instead. ^_^

That big smile on men’s faces when they see a pretty woman has nothing to do with being genuinely happy… it’s more like the body’s natural response to such a visual stimulus. That’s like being happy for him because he likes the smell of fresh pizza when passing by an Italian restaurant.

As evidenced by the answers posted here. Women are usually affected negatively by the fact that their man finds other women equally attractive or more attractive than themselves.

My husband doesn’t check out any women besides me.
Or at least he has the decency to not be so obvious about it.

Well maybe it would be easier if guys woudln’t get so jealous when you even glance in another guys direction. If men want woment to be okay with them checking out other women they should get their own jealousy under control. But like withmost things it’s usually a case of guys execting us to behave and them to do what they like.

I wouldn’t mind, but why would I be happy for him?

looking occasionally just means that he is still alive and human
It’s a natural thing though there still should be attention on you and a simple respect for each other