January 30, 2010
My Self-esteem Is Lowering And I Feel Like I Am Boring? How Do I Bring Myself Up Again?
I use to be such a happy laidback person that could talk to anyone and make it interesting. I just finished my first year of college and my self-esteem from a year ago has sunken and I feel like now I’m too self-conscious and boring. How do I pull myself out of this and regain my confidence?
Suggested Reading:
The Lovables in the Kingdom of Self-Esteem (Loomans, Diane)A charming book filled with characters that children can relate to while learning the qualities of a positive self-image. Thirty-two pages of full color illustrations.
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Comments on My Self-esteem Is Lowering And I Feel Like I Am Boring? How Do I Bring Myself Up Again?
its probably because life in hs it completely differ than college.
in hs you more likely take classes with your friends and you see them all the time bc you are there during the same hours.
but in college. it is completely differ you need to make effort to see your friends and try to figure out a schedule that fits bc everyones schedule is COMPLETELY differ.
that might be it. since youre in a differ enviroment bc sometimes ppl cant adjust to a huge change.
so now try getting back to the person you were.
and seriously DO NOT CARE ABOUT what others think.
bc that lowers your self estem and you become soo self conscious and you pretty much distance yourself to people which may lead to not being happy and quiet..
So practice by saying hi to the people around you. smile and look them in the eyes.
shows confidence.
ask them questions about an assignment or anytihng so you can start talking to them.
Best Wishes.
Sounds like a mild case of depression/sleep deprivation aka a case of the “blahs”. Are you feeling a bit stressed and pressured from your your schedule? If you are, I suggest taking a nice break. Get more sleep.
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Forget about self-esteem – its all crap. What matters is God -esteem and the rest will follow
I like cabbage.
do something you love.