His lying has really taken its toll on our relationship. We are really in love and have been dating over 3 years and we have both realized that he cannot stop lying on his own, so he would like to get help. I was looking in the phonebook under counseling and psychologists, but I noticed that all of them say their for things such as eating disorders, stress management, self esteem, etc. None of them said anything about help with lying. Can just any counselor/psychologist help him with his problem or will he have to see someone that specializes in helping compulsive liars?
I have certainly been suffering alot, but he really seems like he wants to change. He has admitted that he has a problem, which is the first step to stopping. I don’t want to leave him because I care about him alot
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Im Really stuck on what to do right now.My boyfriend isnt happy when im not with him. For example if im talking to him on the phone. Or over msn he said he doesnt feel that happy. But in person hes the happiest he can be. Hes going through a lot right now. Anyone have an ideas how i can make him happy when im not around? hes a very stubbourn guy.
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We are in Orlando and I love him, but he needs MAJOR anger help. He never thinks before he reacts,and the smallest things bother him, such as if I tell him, after he tells me he is hungry, please wait 20 min and I will cook it for you. Last night I told him that, and usually I don’t make him wait, I cook right away, but I asked him to wait 20 min, he slammed the door and got pissed and yelled. Then he tried to leave in his car. I stood in front of his car so he would not leave, believing he would not step on the gas, and I was wrong, he stepped on the gas trying to avoid me, but he hit me, and now my nose looks broke, and I have bruises and scratches everywhere. He did not try to hit me with the car, but he never throught twice about stepping on the gas when I was practicly right in front of the car in the driveway. I don’t understand why I take his **** sometimes.Where can he get anger management in Orlando
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why or why not? please i need to know if what i think is correct in most cases jajaj, by the way I think i should accompain him to the party.
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For details of his horrible behaviour, see my previous question; http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Thanks.
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I am willing to admit that problem is in me, and I am morethan willing, i am desperate to make the first move towards a solution- how do i stop myself from hitting him?
what do i do?
it makes me feel trapped, sometimes i want to kill myself because i feel weak and useless…
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We have been going out for two years and already have a baby….i know we started early. But it happened! i love him and I want to be with him but i want to have a strong relationship with him and i want us to be happy too. But are life is getting a little dull and i want to feel that good feeling again but i don’t. Its gone what should I do? Or we both do to spice it up a lil?
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Should she take anyone with her when she goes?
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My boyfriend and I got in a fight about how i’ve been treating him bad. Making him mad all the time, I don’t do it intentionally. I still make him happy but the reason is he wants me to change, to becoming more mature. That would mean im gonna have to change myself. How do I make him happy and myself happy in between? This guy is a keeper.
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When ever we get together we tend not to worry about our college schoolwork but this week he really needs to get to get stuff done. He asked if after each piece of homework if I could give him some motivation (you know…) to keep him going. I’m looking for suggestions to keep him motivated between papers but not something that will distract him too much. Any ideas?
We’re not planning on going all the way and I’m not going to give him a bj. Nothing too ‘out there’ please.
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