I have been with him for a little over a year. We have our ups and downs, but I don’t feel like I could ever be without him. I have low self esteem and when we argue, it makes things so much worse. I am afraid that if I ever am without him, I won’t find anybody else to love me. What can I do to love myself without having to rely on some guy?
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Im planning a day for just me and my boyfriend and i want it to be the best day ever how should i do and make him really happy?
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Okay here’s the stats: I’m 41, divorced 16 years, 2 kids (ages 21 & 18), 18 year old son still lives at home.
My son works pt at Taco Bell, didn’t graduate and is pretty much having fun this summer, negecting his pets and responsibilites around the house.
I work 45 hrs a week, take care of the house and pets, and cater to the men in my life. For the most part, I like to keep up the house and cook meals, some help would be nice without me making a fuss about it.
My boyfriend (of 2 years), he works a hot job (welder), he would rather sleep or watch TV then do housework. He has no children, he’s had very spotty relationships up until he met me. Apparently, I am the longest relationship he’s ever had.
He has anger issues that at first scared me, but since he knows he has this issue, and refuses to get help (I’ve even offered to go with) I’m not scared of it, I am angry that he will not get help.
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My Bf’s bday comes in a week. I wanna surprise him and make him happy by doing something. Giving gifts will not make him happy. I wanna do something that emotionally touches his heart. Give me ideas.
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My boyfriend and I are both a little over weight, and we both have seperate bad habbits (his is mountain dew and mine is sugar in my coffee) neither of us really exersize enough either. Nothing big but it’d be good if we were both a little more fit. Is it weird or cheesy to ask him to set goals with me about not falling back into our bad habbits? Is it unreasonable to ask him to do this with me?
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years everything has been going well, but he is going on tour soon for 8 months to Japan. Im really supportive and i want him to go. I think its a great experience for him. But i can’t be alone, i get sad when i think of him leaving. How do i keep healthy and happy? along with him being happy?
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