A friend of mine has a pretty tough home life,and when he gets mad he basically snaps from all the stress. If he snaps, how could i calm him down?
well all i know is that he gets pretty violent when he snaps or whatever. and his girlfriend is the only one who can calm him down, and they’re on the rocks apparently, which makes him more on edge.
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what was the reaction of the crowd?
and why so big a deal for THEM to also be included?
lol
what you thought of that scene too?
why so?
how you would have been like? again, why?
btw, which area of the world are you?
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She has really low self-esteem and thinks she is not good for anyone and she always blames herself for everything that’s wrong with her life.Her parents are divorced and all of her family is always pressuring her in doing something she doesn’t want to and she can’t say no to them, she has to listen everything they say. They aren’t strict or anything, she just doesn’t know how to confront them because she thinks she only causes problems!
How can I help her???
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One of my best friends is expecting her second child. Meanwhile, my husband and I have been trying to conceive for the past 3 years. I want to be happy for her, I know I should but it’s really difficult. All I feel is sadness. How do I deal with this? Any advice/tips/suggestions too on trying to conceive? Thank you so much.
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On of my friends has been smoking cigarettes for almost 2 years now. He says that he wants to quite but he doesn’t really have the motivation. Is there anything that i could do help get him to stop? I told him that i was going to start smoking until he stops (i was joking and wanting to see what he would do) and he freaked out on me. I really need some help here.
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I am a male virgo. I recently got into an argument with my friend about a quote he put up. I told him that he needs to take it off his yahoo messenger status because it doesn’t suit him. It stated impossible is nothing and a man limits himself to his on perception or something” I think i got it wrong but i was smart enough to know it has something to with accoomplishing goals. I remember telling about eating right and dieting becaue gained weight and to help him i suggest him diet with me. He tells me that its to takes to much time and he is busy. I got mad at that internally but I told him. I knew he wasn’t gonna do it anyway because he has a history of setting goals but not really having anything to show for it. While I am doing everything I set my heart out to do. Why am I so angry? I even asked him what has he accomplished since I left. He didnt want to. I lived with him this summer and my standards are way higher than his. I am friendly I swear!. It just urks the hell out of me
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He talks to me about how he gets angry almost despite himself, and he seems to be frustrated by it but unable to break out of it. I can’t really relate, as I’m the most passive person you’ll ever meet. Can you help me to understand what he is going through so that I can help him?
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Hi. My bf’s bday comes in a week. I wanna make him happy by doing something. I know u would advice me to get him a nice gift but getting gifts or flowers wont make him happy. I wanna do something so that he feels emotionally touched. Give me good ideas.
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My friend has serious anger issues. How can I help her?
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My friend’s full source of happiness is this girl that he has liked her in the past. There is a direct correlation between the situation with the girl and his happiness. He has also caused her a lot of pain (and vis versa) throughout their friendship. He has finally admitted that he would prefer to be happy without her rather than so horribly unhappy with her. Though, he doesn’t know how to be happy without her, and neither do I. Do you guys have any suggestions of how my friend can get over this friendship with this girl and learn to be happy from different sources?
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