I am a 31 year old guy that is not ugly or goofy(in fact, my closest friends think that I’m pretty cool), but I am shy when it comes to introductions. I have a natural tendancy to approach every aspect of my life with the desire to do my best, but I trained myself to remain humble…no matter how good I become. I sink down into myself whenever I get a compliment.
When I was in my early teenage years, I was picked on by the pretty people (you know, the popular ones whose parents were obsessed with how well their kids turned out). These kids were the ones that always got their asses kissed. Anyway, I made an oath to never be like those whom I despised, and now I’m stuck.
So here I am…All these years later… trapped by my conditioning.
I know that it takes baby steps to start the path of improvement, and I am looking for the right stimuli.
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I used to love my job, and I was excited to go to work. Now management has changed, and the environment has become more dictator like. Added to that, all of my close co-workers quit. Within a short space of time everything changed. I’m biding my time until I find another job, but I’m so stressed right now with the idea of spending so much time in this environment. I can’t sleep. I get sick more often and I don’t smile anymore.
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should be listen to and I should quit? How “easy” is it for achieving goals? Easy I mean, that you follow a plan and everything works accordingly as long as you work hard at it. But if there are OTHER signs that keep dragging you down, does that mean to quit?
Please I really need advice I determining if the goal I set myself is worth continuing. Thanks
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Last year, I had great grades, managed my homework, and kept everything organized. I was a hard worker who strove for the best.
But this year, I hardly ever do all of my homework. I procrastinate on everything, and I am so disorganized, I lose everything!
Please give me some ways I can get back in the swing again!
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(I do not ask for stress management, I just don’t know how to make stress to work for me?)
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How can we convert a person into positive attitude person ?
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Would you agree that unless one is happy with themselves first and really enjoy life and being single, they can not be happy with a significant other? What are your thoughts?
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Mt room is not that messy but I wish it could be more organized! I have a bunch of papers lying around and books scattered around the floor. And now I’m going to get a rabbit so I need to get more organized and neat! any ideas? Thanks to anyone who contributes! 
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He loves balls and goes crazy when he sees anyone playing ball on TV.
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I am a professional translator with a Masters degree, a multilingual and would like to translate some American best-sellers into several European languages that I speak fluently. where do I start? Should I contact publishers of american originals first?
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