No body ever told that im right about my self in this cuz from outside they see a sane person.
I say that I have lost the connection between me and my self.
I always try to run away from my self, not only cuz i hate it, but also because i dun trust it.
Once i go out in public i try to be someone and forget about my self completely. So i turn to be talktive. And pretend things….which cause me regreting it and feel distracted cuz of annoying thoughts of talking lot with others and feel that there better than me with out being appreciated for things I have….
In fact I live through thinking of others people lives and do them fav.
I lack self -protecting.
I might be an inferior person.
I always think that people have the right to be mean i try to prtoect my self by jus being angry and and talk politly to them.
I can not get my self organised and set goals to my life…cuz i think it does mean nothing to me…in someways.
Any extra info about my statue email it to me….
I know that i always being negative bout almost everything in My life.
nonsesne answers
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We looked online at the various providers. Each one has some “specialties” listed. My friend is needs help with stress management, and she has a lot of resentment towards her mother and she thinks this is affecting her relationship with her husband. We also thinkshe may have depression/be depressed because she cries often out of nowhere and she can’t sleep, lack of appetite and there have been a lot of things going on in her family. She is always questioning and second-guessing herself. Sometimes she will be fine and will start a fight or look sad for no reason, but the mood swings are not as severe to be bi-polar.
The specialties listed are : Cognitive therapy, solution based counseling, women’s issues, family, marital, anxiety disorders, affective disorders, anger management, behavio modification. I am trying to help her but we are so confused as to what she needs! Please advise. Thanks.
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I have my own small business. When I started I set small goals of aquiring a curtain amount of customers pre week. If I jumped on Monday per say, and obtained that many customers and put them on the services that we provide them (local and long distance telephone services, Internet, VOIP, digital, video, satallite tv, and cellular through all the major cellular phone providers such as Verizon, T-mobile, Sprint, AT&T, Alltel, Nextell etc. My business runs a little different then the one your looking into starting or already have started. I’ve partnered up with these providers. Once I put a customer on a service, every month they pay their bills, we make a percentage every single month. So for my business, aquiring customers isn’t a customer with a one time sale. Once a customer is placed, I make a percentage every month they pay their bills. So I had set my goal to aquiring a curtain amount of customers each week, if Monday started and I acheived that goal, I could be done working for the week. (The goal to set was to my specification) Or I often opted to working again the next day to reach my next weeks goal. You can change your goals daily if you want. Just remember, in any type of business, the more customers you have, the more income you make.
anyways, My intermediate goals were goals I set for aquiring customers in a quartly fashion, then long term how many for that year. New services that came in through the providers, a curtain number I wanted to acheive on offering existing customers new products or services.
How about you?
Tiffany
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The option good, kind doctor, that has a lot of knowledge is not an option. I’m trying to see what is more important, how the doctor treats the patient or how much knowlegde does the doctor have (even thou his social skills are poor).
“Both’ or “neither” answers are an option. Thanks!
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