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July 5, 2010

What is a good way to build self confidence without crossing the line into arrogance?

I am a 31 year old guy that is not ugly or goofy(in fact, my closest friends think that I’m pretty cool), but I am shy when it comes to introductions. I have a natural tendancy to approach every aspect of my life with the desire to do my best, but I trained myself to remain humble…no matter how good I become. I sink down into myself whenever I get a compliment.
When I was in my early teenage years, I was picked on by the pretty people (you know, the popular ones whose parents were obsessed with how well their kids turned out). These kids were the ones that always got their asses kissed. Anyway, I made an oath to never be like those whom I despised, and now I’m stuck.

So here I am…All these years later… trapped by my conditioning.
I know that it takes baby steps to start the path of improvement, and I am looking for the right stimuli.

I Need A Good Goal Line Defense Set To Run In My Flag Football League?

Its a mixed league so we have to have 2-3 girls on the feild for every play. It’s also a pass intensive league. Any ideas?

How Can One Draw The Line Between Being All Positive In Life, Adopting A Zen Attitude And Being Insensitive?

do you mean between ,,,,being self absorbed and being compassionate..and empathetic
so yeah the more you focus on your self and try to improve your life the less you care about others
so yeah good question.
im afraid i see lesbians as being very self obsessed.

When Does Self-improvement Cross The Line Over To Insecurity Or Does It?

Your opinions Please
Please slap your sun and moon sign in your answer too
Goyant THANKS!! xD

Where To Draw The Line Between ‘being Yourself’ & ‘self Improvement’?

So much advice tells us to ‘be ourselves’ or ‘be true to ourselves’, and yet we would all agree that it behooves us to undertake a certain amount of self improvement e.g. if someone tells you that you are rude, it would be worthwhile makeing an attempt to be more courteous, the same goes with other things like being more confident, more loving, more literate, more open minded, more healthy etc.
This contradiction has been haunting me for years. I would very much like to change and improve myself, but I keep being told that I should just be myself. What am I supposed to do?

One Of The Goals You Have Set For Yourcompany Is To “expand Our Product Line.” This Statement Is?

A. a short-term goal
B. a valuable addition to your mission statement
C. not clear and not measurable
D. a slow-growth option

Where Can I Chat On Line With Others Who Experience Trouble With Anger Management?

well on the Internet you can find anything you just go to yahoo if you have a email on there and go to chat and i think you can find other people with anger management. if you don’t have yahoo then just go to www.chat.com and there should be a room