well I know I got some issues with my attitude, am very serious and get mad really fast and I dont like to be around people much, am ingoing and kind of a loner to be honest, but I just want to change and be less aggressive or arrogant so I won’t make enemies, ALSO I am very extreme I either LOVE or HATE, I can’t pretend to love someone or fake my feelings, and I don’t buy people’s crap and I show it, and this ends up in me having lots of haters.
IF U WILL MAKE FUN PLEASE SKIP MY QUESTION.
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Believe You Can--The Power of a Positive AttitudeBestselling author John Mason shows readers that believing in yourself is the first step to success. This accessible book is both inspirational and practical, encouraging readers to approach life with optimism and the assurance that they are meant for great things.
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I tend to focus on other people’s live and not my own. I find it hard to talk about deep personal issues that are bothering me. I get hurt easily and offended by other’s comments.
I spend time wondering how other people’s lives are and do not focus on my own.
What is the best to set goals and then really focus on them and not look at other people’s lives and think about them so much?
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i mean self esteem is a personal thing, so why is it so influenced by other people’s viewpoints?
actually its psychology
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I get angry when my sister gets things that I don’t. And for some reason all I want is fame, money lots of it, fortune and attention from my parents, that would make me happy? Am I a cruel selfish person, really?
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In my own case for example have seen that it isnt how bright/dumb you are that really counts in job/college success, its motivation. But, why is it more difficult for some people to crave success and simply put their noses to the grind and work? And others myself included find it easy to slack off?
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im not a superficial person and try 2 make everything fair. but im not happy now. i feel happy when ppl compliment my things and i feel it adds value to it. otherwise i dont feel adequate about that certain thing. plz give me some intellectual answers
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I’ve been working at a local restaurant for a little over a year now. It seems that no matter what I do or how hard I work, people get mad at me. I treat everyone the same, I give them no special treatment, and I don’t talk about any of them behind their backs. It was just brought to my attention 2 girls were upset by the fact that I always seem happy. Could this be true of the other girls and if so why?
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I’m never happy. I always worry about what’s gonna happen to me like if something bad is gonna happen to me and it’s not always good. I don’t have any friends. I’m stressed out at school and at home because of school work. Idk what to do. How can I be happy with others and especially me?
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To make the question narrower, let’s say how should I deal with a girl who has a very low self-esteem? We’re close friends and we may take this to the next level and form a relationship. IMO this is what we both want to. The problem is that she freaks out when message I her late. It seems that she thinks that I may consider her questions stupid or something.
What is the best way to soothe her and make a balance in our friendship/later, relationship?
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I had this girl do me so wrong, she lied and just played games and now she is with someone and appears to be very happy with her. Why is it, when you do right you get screwed but people who do wrong, seem to be careless and happy. Should I consider doing wrong so I can be happy too?
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