I am a 24 year old student and
Here are the list of things I do:
=Work 35 hours a week
=Take care of an elderly parent
=Losing weight (lost 35, got 55 to go)
=School classes (I am repeating 3 classes I
got an F in all online this summer)
=I am trying to buy a house
=I am trying to get syllabus Fall classes
so I can start ahead
=I have to clean my car (since I spend so much
time in it)
=There are bugs all over the house I need to buy
sprays and similar
=I have a lot of clutter to throw away
=I need space to study and a schedule
=I want to study for the LSAT
PLEASE HELP ME GET ORGANIZED!!!!
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well i am 13. and i have anger promblems. because it feels like it. like for instance today. i made a sandwichdwich and dropped it. i got so mad that i wanted to just start ripping up the sandwich. i almost did. but i caught myself and just picked it up and threw it away.
and another time was when i was little. brememberember the event clearly. i was just in my room when my mom grounded me. i got so mad that i tore up my whole room.
when i get mad i am sort of like the hulk.lol. i just want to scream and yell and punch someone. and i need advice of how to get over this. can you give me some advice?
and don’t tell me to see a doctor or get meds. cause to do that i would have to tell my parents. and right now there already struggling with my brother. so i would rather keep this to myself. my brother also has an aproblemmblem and his temper is worse. what i think he does. he just punches and throws and yells. and he’s 16! so he usually takes it out on me. and right now my parents are busy with him. so i would rather handle this my self.
so what should i do? please help!
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Please write what it would be, aswell as money, if that is the main motivation for you. Thankyou.
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please help me i need advice about my boyfriend when hes stressed he gets really bad headaches – he keeps every thing inside hates ‘burdening’ me even though iv made it clear i wana help he feels like he has to be the one that makes things better- i wana help him
when hes angry he does the same thing it scares me the other night i did something to make him angry (totally my fault) but instead of shouting he held it on in ten he started breathing funny went pale and dizzy and nearly fainted i had to get him to rais his legs.
he said this has happened a few times when hes really angrey.
please advice me i know this is not good for him
he has has a brain scan and a check up his blood pressure is fines its only when hes stressed angry he gets like this
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You see I never seem happy and I always seem stressed out and it makes me depressed . I have a very messy room that I want to finish but I always give up and loose intrest . I really want my room to be awsome and cool . Another problem is I have a high temper that gets me in trouble and I really want to behave . Lots of people don’t understand that I’m a big dreamer in life and that I want to make this world a better world and when people never understand me I get very mad !!! A big problem is my family pets ! Oh boy I’m sure made at them because they are using my special items and webkinz as a chew toy and I break down when that happens ! I need answers to my problems and I can not take this trouble any more !Also my sister is always bne bossy and trying to control and ruin my life and she already has to see doctors for her problems and waht makes me sad is she doesn’t love me . So what I need help with is my High temper , behavior , my sister , my room and everything I said . Help !
I dug myself in a deep enough hole and need help getting out but I’m stuck on want to do . That’s why I’m asking this question !
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thanks a lot..
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1. Relaxation is a state of
A. low arousal.
B. high arousal.
C. increased blood pressure.
D. rapid thought processes.
2. To analyze exactly what you do with your time, you need to
A. write down everything that you do in a time inventory.
B. videotape 24 hours of a typical day.
C. buy a daily planner.
D. have a friend observe your work habits.
3. Having confidence and satisfaction in yourself is known as
A. visualization.
B. self-esteem.
C. self-centeredness.
D. self-gratification.
4. Which of the following is an important first step toward developing a personal stress management program?
A. Finding out what creates the most stress for you
B. Learning new skills for relaxation
C. Displacing unwanted stress onto family and friends
D. Observing the fight-or-flight response
5. A neat, organized work space
A. can lower your stress level.
B. isn’t really beneficial.
C. makes it seem like you’re not really working.
D. is nice to look at, but hard to work with.
6. A sound diet will help your body to
A. sleep less deeply at night.
B. feel more stressed.
C. ward off the effects of temporary stress.
D. increase flexibility.
7. Progressive muscle relaxation is a technique used for
A. falling asleep.
B. becoming aware of tension in muscles.
C. prepping surgery patients.
D. raising blood pressure.
8. To achieve a low state of arousal, you need to
A. control breathing, thoughts, and tension within the muscles.
B. check your blood pressure regularly.
C. seek professional counseling.
D. increase your anxiety and breathe heavily.
9. Once you’ve determined your long- and short-term goals, you can use a _______ to determine how to best use your time.
A. filing system
B. tickler file
C. monthly calendar
D. to-do list
10. A person who drinks a few glasses of wine every day to relax is
A. handling his or her stress very well.
B. distracting him- or herself from the real problem by keeping busy.
C. concealing his or her symptoms temporarily.
D. not drinking enough to cure the problem.
11. To limit your telephone time at work, you can
A. ignore your messages—people with important messages will call back.
B. have a coworker answer your phone.
C. limit the conversation to work-related issues.
D. unplug the phone.
12. A good strategy for managing emotional stress is
A. telling yourself you can’t handle the problem.
B. recognizing that most problems are temporary and manageable.
C. reminding yourself how many times you’ve failed before.
D. ignoring the stress until it reaches an unbearable state.
13. A good strategy for managing social stress is
A. avoiding eye contact.
B. being hostile to the party involved.
C. using low-stress situations to prepare for more stressful situations.
D. getting yourself tensed up for a fight.
14. Which of the following is a direct benefit of practicing relaxation techniques?
A. Less stress and anxiety
B. Cardiovascular strength
C. A faster heart rate
D. Greater muscle tension
15. What are the four basic facets to a personal stress management program?
A. Body work, mental work, spiritual work, and vacations
B. Warm-up, cooldown, aerobics, and calisthenics
C. Confidence, dependability, accessibility, and eye contact
D. Fitness, nutrition, relaxation, and self-esteem
16. Which of the following is an example of concealing symptoms of stress by reducing your body’s sensitivity to the symptoms?
A. Arousal reduction
B. Drug and alcohol use
C. Breathing
D. Autogenic training
17. You should complete your A priorities
A. during your peak waking hours.
B. during your low-energy hours.
C. only after your B priorities have been completed.
D. after everyone else has retired for the evening.
18. Which of the following statements is good advice to follow when participating in relaxation training?
A. The setting should be a well-lit room.
B. Wear tight-fitting clothes.
C. Sit in a semireclined position with your head and neck well-supported.
D. Have a radio playing softly in the background.
19. If you have too many tasks to complete at work, you should
A. take a deep breath and start at the top of the pile and work your way down as quickly as possible.
B. complain to your boss that it’s an unreasonable amount of work.
C. decide for yourself what is the most important, then get started.
D. ask your boss to prioritize assignments.
20. An example of a long-term goal is
A. getting your hair done at your favorite salon.
B. traveling to Europe.
C. finishing a term paper.
D. reading a biography.
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I am a teenager and i try to be happy, but whenever i do then my parent’s divorce gets on my mind and makes me sad. i cant help but think of moving houses and sh*t. its like a subconcious anchor holding me back from being happy. any advice on how to just think about other things and be positive? gracias amigos.
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