Ok so lately I’ve gotten myself in a humung-O rut and I feel like I’ve lost myself. I’ve lost my direction in life and I’m just really stuck inside myself. I used to write and journal everyday or whatever, but It’s proven to be too frustrating lately because I just can’t seem to get it all out of my head.
Anyways, I want to reverse the effects that this downfall has had on me and get back to the amazing state of mind that I was in before my rut. However, most of the time the reason I never succeed is because I don’t know how to begin. So where/ how do I start to change INTERNALLY.
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i am single, student and doing part time business.
i m doing fine in studies. but my life is total mess…cannot sleep in night, always wake up late..dont remember when i cleaned my room last…only some how meet the client and uni dead lines…else smoke joint and stay low energy with my notebook….
i wanna change
please help!!
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I do want to get my Bachelors degree but I have have a tendency to be lazy and procrastinate. I can’t seem to find the mindset. I feel I need to change and I may need to be inspired. My goals should be motivation enough but they’re not. Please help me find motivation and teach how to work hard. Everything used to come easy. Now I have to earn everything in life. I haven’t adgusted to the harsh reality.
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want to be famous and think being a child actor in movies would be fun…But I know that it takes a lot more than I have to do so…So how do I just be happy with myself and my situation? And not envy other child actors?
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I am a college student in my senior year, and I’ve been going full-time all year round for 2 years. I am burnt out, tired, stressed…now that it’s the fall semester, I just lack the motivation to go to classes and I don’t even study. Help!
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I’m only 30 years old, but I’m beginning to realize that if I had a ton of money it wouldn’t make me happy. I know for a fact that if I won the lottery I would probably forget about the important things in life and blow it on negative things (liquor, weed, women, etc). So I would rather never be rich!
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i dont like 8th grade very much because im not “popular” and im having friends issues.i dont enjoy getting fancy things like uggs and vera bradley anymore. and im not really into holidays either. i feel like i caant be happy because im not popular or happy in school. i know sounds crazy. what do i do?
i kinda want to be like alex russo.
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I have a couple of pages of essay to write before I return to school in 7 days. I haven’t started and I really don’t want to start because I don’t know what to write, and I’m a perfectionist and I’d hate to give it a half-arsed attempt.
HELP? Where do I find the motivation? What are some tips and tricks?
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It took us 15 months to conceive our beautiful daughter! It was and still is unexplained as to why it took a young healthy couple that long to conceive. We even had my husbands little swimmers tested and they are above average quality actually. I was tested for everything that could cause a problem and I was free and clear of any problems, thank god.
It took us 5 months to conceive the second time but I had a chemical pregnancy and miscarried at 5 weeks 2 days.
So my question is:
How do I go into TTC again with a fresh out look and positive attitude. Right now all I can think of is not getting pregnant for another 9 years or getting pregnant and having another miscarriage or it taking forever only to have a miscarriage! I am not ready to give up, but im also feeling really hopeless, anxious and a little nervous!
HELP! I know a lot of women on here have felt this way, how did you move on and look toward the future?
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Ok, so first semester wasnt the best. I got pretty good grades except physics. but the problem was my laziness. When I saw that I wasnt doing good in physics I sort of gave up in a way. I became lazy and stopped doing some work. I let my negative thoughts like that I could never be good at physics, influence me…
So now that a new semester is starting, how can I go into it with a positive attitude, keep that attitude, and not get lazy? Any motivation ideas woule be appreciated
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