My problem started when I picked my major, hospitality management. At the time I wanted to be a GM in a hotel, but later I would find out that this industry is terrible. If I would be a GM, I would have to probably start at the front desk (for $8/ hr) and work there for ten years. Then I would probably become the manager of the front desk (salary in only the mid to high 20,000s) and then ten years after that I would finally get to a GM position. However, the problem with this position is that in every two years the majority of hotels are usually bought in sold and then the GM would be replaced. The first GM at my hotel was fired because of this and has actually worked at five different hotels in five different states, in as many years. Now I am having difficulty finding a job b/c the jobs I am applying to want degrees in other majors. I find myself ALWAYS thinking complaining and blaming my school b/c they didnt inform me of any of this. Does anyone know what i can do to help?
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I’m a first year college student. I’m 18. Im trying so hard to pass all my classes but I’ve already dropped out of one and my college is a commute from where I live. My parents go out of town a lot so I’m forced with the responsibility of the dogs, house, cleaning..etc. Its stressful!
I try and find time for job applications, friends, a love life, exercise, studying, relaxing and sleeping and cleaning but theres simply not enough time in the day. what can i do? please please help me
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Like things you should avoid doing to make your self esteem even worse.
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Could they go crazy or would they actually start enjoying life and become a great person to be around?
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I’ve heard various theories about reaching your goals but sometimes you can set goals that are harder than others. What does it take to reach the hardest of goals? Is it logical to assume the some goals are impossible to reach?
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I am a teenager and i try to be happy, but whenever i do then my parent’s divorce gets on my mind and makes me sad. i cant help but think of moving houses and sh*t. its like a subconcious anchor holding me back from being happy. any advice on how to just think about other things and be positive? gracias amigos. 
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The only way we can measure hapiness and success is from the money we have. If today you can be come out with another universal formula that is much better than albert einstein e=mc2 formula. But you still living like a poor people that got financial concern from time to time. You can not even spend much money to have better food. You can’t afford to travel around the world or country. You are living in a old house. You got nothing in your house. Will you feel happy with your life?
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I realise I’ve always been very negative. I also have a very congenial side – I make friends easily but when they get to know me they say I’m very cynical towards life. My family is/was like this. In the book “feel the fear and face it anyway” by Susan Jeffers she talks about a group of people who meet every day at 6:30 in the morning to encourage each other. How does one go about meeting such like minded people in London? I want to change my attitude to become positive, control my anger, pity, depressed nature, better life outlook? Any suggestions?
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with the shyest most backward kids. How do we help our kids have good self esteem so they can get through the peer pressure and other challenges of teenage years.
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Im always forgetting dates, due dates, getting late fees, etc
I would like an organizer but I dont know which one is better.
How good of an organizer is a blackberry? How about the touchscreen blackberry?
Is the Iphone any good?
It DOESNT have to be a cellphone BTW
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