I would love to have a better self esteem, but I just don’t know how. I hate the way I look, and I’m just getting tired of it.
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I am a 31 year old guy that is not ugly or goofy(in fact, my closest friends think that I’m pretty cool), but I am shy when it comes to introductions. I have a natural tendancy to approach every aspect of my life with the desire to do my best, but I trained myself to remain humble…no matter how good I become. I sink down into myself whenever I get a compliment.
When I was in my early teenage years, I was picked on by the pretty people (you know, the popular ones whose parents were obsessed with how well their kids turned out). These kids were the ones that always got their asses kissed. Anyway, I made an oath to never be like those whom I despised, and now I’m stuck.
So here I am…All these years later… trapped by my conditioning.
I know that it takes baby steps to start the path of improvement, and I am looking for the right stimuli.
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I think my biology prevents me from being happy with just my good friends. I’d like to get out of the dating game all together and be at peace alone.
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What is relation between face, body and mind ? How to get control on lips movement ? Due to some unknown fear, I could not look my face for first 25 years in the mirror ? How get self knowledge or knowledge about face ? How to control eyes ? What is relation between eyes, mind and body ? Is control on mind and work is possible through control on self eyes? How to create self awareness, improve body language, lips movement ? What is the role of face in improvement of human being, mind control, eye control, self work control ? Kindly guide me suitably.
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I’m a 15 year old male, that gets angry fast, and for everything. And people at school always say that I always have a pissed off look, and I really have a strong hatred against my bad because of the way he is with my mom and me, and I just hate him.
And I always like using violence for everything. I really wanna stop getting angry for everything, or getting mad at everyone.
What can I do?
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Good day!
This past few weeks really stressed me out. Being a third year BSE (Science major) student is really stressing. My body already wants to give up. There are the countless sleepless nights, paperworks, and lined-up exams. I’m sure that I’ll be more restless next semester.
I do time management but it seems like its not enough, I’m still loaded with lots of things to do, never-ending. Any advice or word from you would be so meaningful to me. How can I get rid of the tyring weeks and at the same time finish all the tasked that are needed to be done in time.
Hoping for your kind responses. Thank you so much.
Joselle Delgado
College of Education
University of Santo Tomas
joselle_delgado@yahoo.com
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You know how they say that men are more happy and less likely to be suicidal if they are in a relationship with women? I forgot who actually researched so I can’t give you a source.
But anyway if a man has great self esteem, and is successful and isn’t worried whether a woman will want to be with him. (Because it seems most women have the attitude that every man wants them.)
Does that make some women upset?
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want to be famous and think being a child actor in movies would be fun…But I know that it takes a lot more than I have to do so…So how do I just be happy with myself and my situation? And not envy other child actors?
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Whenever I try to give my own opinion about something or whenever I am asked for an explanation, I have trouble trying to express myself clearly. My thoughts get very cloudy and I have to struggle to get out what I want to say. Whatever I do get out however, is rather cluttered and disorganized. I’ve listened to myself speak and I’ve managed to put myself asleep!
Whenever I’m not speaking however, I can express myself fine through thinking, writing, etc. It’s rather frustrating because I can hardly keep a good conversation going for more than a few seconds without boring the other person to death. Is there some way to fix this?
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im not a superficial person and try 2 make everything fair. but im not happy now. i feel happy when ppl compliment my things and i feel it adds value to it. otherwise i dont feel adequate about that certain thing. plz give me some intellectual answers
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