More detail – you have a male mate, and he notices an attractive woman – maybe a picture of one, one on TV, or one just walking down the street. Not that he doesn’t find you very attractive, because you already know that he does. So then, you notice that he becomes very happy by observing how attractive this other woman is. Should you be happy for him since he is so happy? If you are not happy for him, then are you being selfish, egotistical, insecure and self-centered?
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to pose for a website like Playboy or Penthouse?
It isn’t especially lucrative. Easy money, yes, but I’ve done my research and they aren’t paid that much, really.
Thus, correcting for those who may simply be lazy and see getting naked as easy money, what would you contend are common motivations?
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Well, its like this i want to hang with more women, talk on the phone, take care of myself more(hair, nails, toes) go shopping(something is always due) save and have fun i want to keep my hair done and look good all the time and i know its work but i get less motivated to do those things . I have no friends so where do i start?
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You know how they say that men are more happy and less likely to be suicidal if they are in a relationship with women? I forgot who actually researched so I can’t give you a source.
But anyway if a man has great self esteem, and is successful and isn’t worried whether a woman will want to be with him. (Because it seems most women have the attitude that every man wants them.)
Does that make some women upset?
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I see some good qualities in my mother in law that I would like in myself. She is independent, strong willed, motivated and she knows how to stand up for herself and I think those are all important qualities to have, especially for women. My problem is that I give up too easily. So how do I set goals and stay self-motivated to be a better person? My hubby thinks I should read more motivational books and listen to motivation speeches. He suggested Anthony Robbins work.
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I saw this book in Borders a few months ago — it was a self-help or self-improvement book and the premise was that the author started taking advice from magazines and completely turned her life around.
Anybody know what it’s called?? I can’t remember and I can’t find it! Thanks!
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guess who shows up?
what happened exactly in that scene and what would you think about it?
what would you do?
why so?
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Besides that, what NEGATIVE ATTITUDES that I should avoid as a young WOMAN and a LADY?
Oh, how about men? What POSITIVE ATTITUDES that a MAN should have as a MAN and a GENTLEMAN?
What NEGATIVE ATTITUDES that he should avoid as a MAN and a GENTLEMAN?
Is the old proveb about “a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom” is still relevant here?
PS: I’m 19 years old here 
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