I’ve always believed in the notion of destiny, and that life will take care of itself..It used to but not anymore. I’ve never set any goals, and devised any plans to reach them. Lately, I’ve come to the realization that I’m lucky to obtain a bachelor degree, and have a job, and be able to lead a life. I went to a college ‘cauz I found its catalog in my mailbox. I majored in mathematics, not knowing I want to do with it. I took a tons of private loans to finance my education, with the hope that I will eventually get a great job to pay it back. I’m now 25 years old, and I still haven’t figure out what I want to do with my life. I honestly don’t know where I’d like to be one, two, three or five years from now. For one thing, I know that I have to change that mindset. I have to set goals, but that’s something we have developed over the years. And that’s something we find within. I’ve always done things as they come along. I was quite satistied with everything. But lately, I’ve been having that feeling of emptiness. I’ve never had any passions or showed any enthusiasms about anything. I was hoping that one day I would wake up, and things would just change. I know that the problem is within, and I’m the only one who can fix it..Has anyone felt that way, and was able to change? or has anyone known someone who felt the same way, and was able to change? Life is supposed to have a purpose..and make it meaningful one needs to have goals, and set plans to reach them..I’m not suicidal or depressed, but I dont wanna reach that point. I’m doing all I can to be reasonable and happy..but I can’t keep living like this.
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I’ve noticed this amoung women who claim to be friends – they are secretly happy when a relationship breaks up or someone loses a good job or if you make a mistake.
Why be happy when something goes terribly wrong in someone else’s life?
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Within the past week Yahoo Mail has been weird. Either can’t get access to view mail or get the oddest looking page that’s spread out in large font all over the place.
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that’s pretty much it, how? I want to move away I hate everything and all my surroundings I can’t be happy when I don’t want to be here. Just got out of a 3 year break up and I’ve been sad now I’m just pissed and getting sad again it’s only been a week I wanna beat ***
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does that make me a hater or is it ok to be happy?
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Is this just a phase I’m going through? I don’t feel depressed, just bored, unmotivated, constant state of “blah”.
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Since you approved of ACORN doing this exact thing in the past and considerd it the right to free speech and awareness. Why is it not considered that now that it’s not something you agree with?
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Every political cycle someone or some group funds a nationwide anti-union campaign. The talk show hacks get all over this and equate organized labor with communism and destroying America.
There are certainly examples of unruly unions that have hurt their members, but at the core, what is really wrong with organized labor – if run properly?
Isn’t it a good thing to advocate for worker health and safety, promote health insurance and benefits and better wages – not to mention preventing corporations from hiring illegals to replace skilled workers?
I think the big corporations want to scare us because it affects their bottom line. It always amazes me that people hate unions in general but then complain about how crappy they are treated at work.
My union is fine – I don’t mind the dues. They pick a candidate but I don’t have to vote like that. At least I have backup if I’m mistreated or dehumanized at work.
What about you? Please state if you are or were a union member.
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I had this girl do me so wrong, she lied and just played games and now she is with someone and appears to be very happy with her. Why is it, when you do right you get screwed but people who do wrong, seem to be careless and happy. Should I consider doing wrong so I can be happy too?
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