Aspectations » Youre http://aspectations.com Aspects of Expectations .::. Everybody has them! Fri, 25 May 2012 15:44:11 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 how do you figure out why you’re really angry? stress and anger management question.? http://aspectations.com/how-do-you-figure-out-why-youre-really-angry-stress-and-anger-management-question.html http://aspectations.com/how-do-you-figure-out-why-youre-really-angry-stress-and-anger-management-question.html#comments Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:32:30 +0000 admin http://aspectations.com/how-do-you-figure-out-why-youre-really-angry-stress-and-anger-management-question.html i think i’ve always had anger management issues. when i get angry, i usually yell at somebody, then cry about it ’cause i feel guilty later. sometimes, though, i snap. like, i throw things, and i don’t really realize what i’m doing and when i do realize it, it just makes me angrier because i start to feel guilty and i get defensive because i think i’ve got nothing to be guilty about.

i looked anger management up and it says to figure out why you’re angry. well, what if you’re getting pissed over little things and then you explode? and it’s irrational, but the only reason you can think of for being so angry is that little reason but you know there’s gotta be something else? so how would you figure out the REAL reason for this irrational behavior?

i know this is long, i just wanna figure out why i get so angry so easily and then take care of it from there.

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]]> http://aspectations.com/how-do-you-figure-out-why-youre-really-angry-stress-and-anger-management-question.html/feed/ 2 What causes someone to habitually change their demeanor so that when you’re happy, they seem sad? http://aspectations.com/what-causes-someone-to-habitually-change-their-demeanor-so-that-when-youre-happy-they-seem-sad.html http://aspectations.com/what-causes-someone-to-habitually-change-their-demeanor-so-that-when-youre-happy-they-seem-sad.html#comments Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:45:16 +0000 admin http://aspectations.com/what-causes-someone-to-habitually-change-their-demeanor-so-that-when-youre-happy-they-seem-sad.html When I am sad, scared, and depressed, they give some support, but not sure how genuine it is. Then, when I get encouraging news and am happier, I get a sense that they are unhappier. Why is this? Don’t they want me to be happy?

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]]> http://aspectations.com/what-causes-someone-to-habitually-change-their-demeanor-so-that-when-youre-happy-they-seem-sad.html/feed/ 4 What Is It Called When You’re Not Happy With Your Work? http://aspectations.com/what-is-it-called-when-youre-not-happy-with-your-work.html http://aspectations.com/what-is-it-called-when-youre-not-happy-with-your-work.html#comments Sat, 16 Jan 2010 03:43:34 +0000 admin http://aspectations.com/what-is-it-called-when-youre-not-happy-with-your-work.html I’m a musician and I am always writing songs. I am very confident in my abilities but there is always something I’m not happy with when I complete a song. I’ve heard that every artist has something he/she doesn’t like about their work but I’m having a serious problem. Everything song I write feels like its missing something I’ll never be able to find. Is there a word for this and are their ways to cope with it?

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