What Are The Point To Say To The Wife To Makes Her Happy ?

When she says that you are an idiot ,say Yes
When she says you are Smart , say Yes
Even if you are wrong , You say Yes to what ever she says
Even If you are right and she says you are wrong , You say Yes.
In Short Agree with Wife to be happy even if she is worng !

You can make your wife happy by doing the following things.
And these comes with a 101% assurity:
1. Beautiful Reception
After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you:
* begin with a good greeting.
Did you pick up groceries on the way home?
* Start with Assalamau ‘Aliaykum and a smile. Salam is a sunnah and a
du’aa for her as well.
* Shake her hand and leave bad news for later!
Is this a business meeting?
2. Sweet Speech and Enchanting Invitations
* Choose words that are positive and avoid negative ones.
* Speak with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she understands.
Did you pick up groceries on the way home?
Did you pick up groceries on the way home?
Did you pick up groceries on the way home?
Diiiiiid yooooooou piiiiickkk uuuuuupppppp………..
* Call her with the nice names that she likes, e.g. my sweet-heart,
honey, saaliha, etc.
Ya Habibti
3. Friendliness and Recreation
* Spend time talking together.
* Spread to her goods news.
* Remember your good memories together.
4. Games and Distractions
* Joking around & having a sense of humor.
* Playing and competing with each other in sports or whatever.
* Taking her to watch permissible (halal) types of entertainment.
* Avoiding prohibited (haram) things in your choices of entertainment.
No Reality TV! I forbid “A Simple Life”.
5. Assistance in the Household
* Doing what you as an individual can/like to do that helps out,
especially if she is sick or tired.
* The most important thing is making it obvious that he appreciates her
hard work.
6. Consultation (Shurah)
* Specifically in family matters.
* Giving her the feeling that her opinion is important to you.
Yes dear, I can’t believe she is wearing that either!
* Studying her opinion carefully.
Hmmm, you are right, that purse does not match that outfit!
* Be willing to change an opinion for her if it is better.
* Thanking her for helping him with her opinions.
7. Visiting Others
* Choosing well raised people to build relations with. There is a great
reward in visiting relatives and pious people. (Not in wasting time
while visiting!)
Leila helped me with this one, visiting my friends was a waste of my time.
* Pay attention to ensure Islamic manners during visits.
* Not forcing her to visit whom she does not feel comfortable with.
8. Conduct During Travel
* Offer a warm farewell and good advice.
* Ask her to pray for him.
* Ask pious relatives and friends to take care of the family in your
absence.
I know you do a good job while I’m gone, my mother is just here to help.
* Give her enough money for what she might need.
* Try to stay in touch with her whether by phone, e-mail, letters, etc..
* Return as soon as possible.
* Bring her a gift!
* Avoid returning at an unexpected time or at night.
* Take her with you if possible.
9. Financial Support
* The husband needs to be generous within his financial capabilities. He
should not be a miser with his money (nor wasteful).
* He gets rewards for all that he spends on her sustenance even for a
small piece of bread that he feeds her by his hand (hadeith).
* He is strongly encouraged to give to her before she asks him.
Sometimes I don’t even know when I have given.
10. Smelling Good and Physical Beautification
* Following the Sunnah in removing hair from the groin and underarms.
Needs work
* Always being clean and neat.
I promise to work on this one too.
* Put on perfume for her.
Sorry, I thought “Eau de Toilette” was fancy French perfume.
11. Intercourse
* It is obligatory to do it habitually if you have no excuse (sickness,etc.)
I asked around and not one guy had a valid excuse for this one.
* Start with “Bismillah” and the authentic du’a.
* Enter into her in the proper place only (not the anus).
* Begin with foreplay including words of love.
Babe, Wake up!
* Continue until you have satisfied her desire.
* Relax and joke around afterwards.
A Priest, Rabbi, and an Imam walk into a bar…
* Avoid intercourse during the monthly period because it haram
* Do what you can to avoid damaging her level of Hiyaa (shyness and
modesty) such as taking your clothes together instead of asking her
to do it first while he is looking on.
Ok…so you are saying that asking her to do some pole dancing would damage her level of Hiyaa?
* Avoid positions during intercourse that may harm her such as putting
pressure on her chest and blocking her breath, especially if you are
heavy.
Sorry about the chokehold..I was just watching wrestling
* Choose suitable times for intercourse and be considerate as
sometimes she maybe sick or exhausted.
12. Guarding Privacy
* Avoid disclosing private information such as bedroom secrets, her
personal problems and other private matters.
Honestly babe, I did not post that on my blog!
13. Aiding in the Obedience to Allah
* Wake her up in the last third of the night to pray “Qiam-ul-Layl”
(extra prayer done at night with long sujood and ruku’ua).
* Teach her what you know of the Qur’an and its tafseer.
* Teach her “Dhikr” (ways to remember Allah by the example of the
prophet) in the morning and evening.
* Encourage her to spend money for the sake of Allah such as in a charity
sale.
* Take her to Hajj and Umrah when you can afford to do so.
I would do this but she likes water with the beach…just kidding..
14. Showing Respect for her Family and Friends
* Take her to visit her family and relatives, especially her parents.
* Invite them to visit her and welcome them.
* Give them presents on special occasions.
All that I carried in my luggage was presents…next time can I bring some clothes for myself?
* Help them when needed with money, effort, etc..
* Keep good relations with her family after her death if she dies first.
Also in this case the husband is encouraged to follow the sunnah
and keep giving what she used to give in her life to her friends and
family.
15. (Islamic) Training & Admonition
This includes
* The basics of Islam
* Her duties and rights
* Reading and writing
* Encouraging her to attend lessons and halaqahs
* Islamic rules (ahkam) related to women
* Buying Islamic books and tapes for the home library
Is home schooling a child this hard?
16. Admirable Jealousy
* Ensure she is wearing proper hijab before leaving house.
* Restrict free mixing with non-mahram men.
Not too many all female sweat shops here anymore,
so this one might be a little tough to comply with
* Avoiding excess jealousy. Examples of this are:
1- Analyzing every word and sentence she says and overloading
her speech by meanings that she did not mean
What do you mean by that?
2- Preventing her from going out of the house when the reasons are
just.
Sometimes she ‘just’ goes out…this is getting confusing.
3- Preventing her from answering the phone.
17. Patience and Mildness
* Problems are expected in every marriage so this is normal. What is
wrong is excessive responses and magnifying problems until a marital
breakdown.
* Anger should be shown when she exceeds the boundaries of Allah SWT, by
delaying prayers, backbiting, watching prohibited scenes on TV, etc..
Damn Reality TV!!
* Forgive the mistakes she does to you (See item 18).
* How can you best correct her mistakes?
I use this technique… “I’m sorry ,dear”
1- First, implicit and explicit advice several times.
2- Then by turning your back to her in bed (displaying your feelings).
I would actually be displaying my *** to her.
Note that this does not include leaving the bedroom to another room,
leaving the house to another place, or not talking with her.
Damn, sleeping on the couch is easier for me.
3- The last solution is (when allowable) lightly hitting her.
In this case, the husband should consider the following:
- He should know that sunnah is to avoid beating as the Prophet
PBUH never beat a woman or a servant.
- He should do it only in extreme cases of disobedience, e.g.
refusing intercourse without cause frequently, constantly not
praying on time, leaving the house for long periods of time
without permission nor refusing to tell him where she had been,
etc..
Does the Year End Sale at Victoria’s Secret count?
- It should not be done except after having turned from her bed and
discussing the matter with her as mentioned in Qur’an .
- He should not hit her hard injuring her, or hit her on her face or
on sensitive parts of her body.
- He should avoid shaming her such as by hitting her with a shoe,
etc.
What about a flip-flop?
18. Pardoning and Appropriate Censure
* Accounting her only for larger mistakes.
* Forgive mistakes done to him but account her for mistakes done in
Allah’s rights, e.g. delaying prayers, etc..
* Remember all the good she does whenever she makes a mistake.
* Remember that all humans err so try to find excuses for her such as
maybe she is tired, sad, having her monthly cycle or that her
commitment to Islam is growing.
So are you saying that as her religious commitment grows she will be making more mistakes?
* Avoid attacking her for the bad cooking of the food as the Prophet PBUH
never blamed any of his wives for this. If he likes the food, he eats
and if he doesn’t then he does not eat and does not comment.
* Before declaring her to be in error, try other indirect approaches that
are more subtle than direct accusations
Leila, can you believe that damn cat burned my dinner!!!
* Escape from using insults and words that may hurt her feelings.
* When it becomes necessary to discuss a problem wait until you have
privacy from others.
* Waiting until the anger has subsided a bit can help to keep a control
on your words.
I find sleeping first helps me.

well money is important for a family life,
if ur wife is not money minded then u r lucky
there r only love words which can make one happy,
be with her, love her, help her in her activities,
take her out in ur means and make her happy
as u don’t have money u should not get irritate upon her.

If you want to be that way then you’ve got to wake up every day with an unselfish attitude. Be kind at all times and very helpful with daily tasks and chores. Respect is what it boils down to. Good luck.

mutual respect, love , praising on some good work she does; be it as regular as cooking a delicious food, house keeping etc, encouraging her to do something constructive or progressive and participating in her endeavour, occasional outings, sight seeing/travelling , social gatherings and get togethers, etc. Money only can not make one happy for long.

what the **** did u just say?????????????? i don’t understand u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For you: A happy life is a happy wife!

My wife always says there are two words that will make any wife happy and they are “YES DEAR”. Words are overrated. Try just hugging or holding her.

Faithfulness and love will make the spouse happier like no other thing does.

money never make a person happy it only love, affection, responsibility, and your ability to shown all this things will make you and other person happy

Money will never make someone happy. You need to learn to listen to what she needs and wants and give it to her the best way you can. Feeling accepted and loved will make someone happy. Find out what makes her feel loved, (you helping her with chores, you spending time with her, you touching her, complimenting her…). You find this out by using listening skills and practice them, she will be happy.

Be a true partner and talk with the other. Have fun and truly enjoy each others company. Money can’t buy that.