What If You Husband Insists On Marriage Counseling/anger Management? What Should I Do?

I say go for it my husband took anger management and we also took marriage counseling because or marriage was on the rocks and WOW!! he has been so much better that was almost 4 years ago and he is an excellent father and husband, if you don’t feel you have these problems give it a try because counseling can always help regardless of where you are at in your life or how happy you are just do it its not all the time I hear a man suggest counseling for marriage its always the other way around.
Good luck

Hi B
If you or your husband are having anger problems which are affecting your marriage then certainly I feel you should go for counselling/anger management. Don’t be embarrassed by this as we all have to face our anger from time to time and it could only make you feel better and stronger in yourself by doing something positive about yourself. So why not give it a go, your marriage will come on leaps and bounds.
All the best, hope you get it sorted out
Luv Mags xx

Is there a valid reason for it? If so, and I wanted to save the relationship, I’d do whatever it takes. If I had a temper problem, I’d want to fix it for the sake of others in my life, and for myself. All that anger isn’t good for you, it can poison your soul and keep you from finding happiness. Good luck to you!

If your marriage is in trouble and he isn’t willing to work on it with you ie. counselling or therapy, then you cannot change him or control him. You need to tell him how dire this is for you and if you can’t fix it together then there is no point in continuing on unhappy.

You haven’t given us many details, but it sounds like if he’s suggested counseling/anger management, then he thinks there is a problem. Talk to him about it, but it sounds like he’s wants you to do something to save your relationship.

Go for it. The only reason one would not do that is when they’ve reached the point where they don’t want to work anything out anymore. If you still have love for him, go and see what happens. The worst thing that can happen is that it doesn’t work. Good luck

Sometimes that is your last chance for making it work. If he is adamant that he doesn’t want to try it, then he doesn’t want to try and make your marriage work. Now you need to make a choice… stay or go?
Best of luck

First ask him why he wants marriage counseling. And that is a GOOD THING. So do it if he wants it because it probably means you both need it. If you love him try it. It can only help not hurt.

If he feels strongly about getting help you should go. Marriage is a partnership. If it was you that wanted help and he didnt.. how would you feel. Try to put yourself in his shoes..

Give it a try if you want the marriage to survive.

Do it.
It can’t hurt