February 4, 2010
What Is A Polite Way I Can Tell Someone They Need Help With Anger Management?
* When they are calm and mellow, ask them when it’s a good time to talk about how they reacted to blank blank blank yesterday. Ask the person why they escalated and ask them how it makes THEM feel. Ask them if they want help with the situation. Take it from there.
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Comments on What Is A Polite Way I Can Tell Someone They Need Help With Anger Management?
Don’t tel them in the middle of an outburst because that is when they are least likely to hear anything anybody else says. When they are calm, calmly explain their actions to them and how you feel about it. Then–still calmly–suggest that they get some help because you don’t want anything bad to happen to them. Of course, this can go off the rails at any moment–I know someone with anger issues and you never know what sets them off–so be careful not to join in their anger.
Anger issues are “side effects.” There are much bigger issues with people who have them. There are serious mental disorders present.
Be very careful!
There isn’t a polite way, they will just get angry with you, so just tell it to them straight. then walk away fast
in an email–far, far away