Where Does Real Self-improvement And Potential Lie And How Do We Achieve Our Dreams?

It’s actually pretty simple. In order to improve yourself, listen to yourself. You know what you’re ok with and NOT ok with. If you find yourself doing things that you don’t agree with, stop it. By ensuring you stick to your morals, it makes it kinda hard to have any regrets and you’ll start to become the person you always envisioned yourself as. If you really want to achieve something, you won’t give up. It’s easy to get caught up in the work required to get somewhere. When someone is so caught up in the here and the now, they lose sight of their goals. Stay focused.

It is pretty subjective, I’ll tell you what I do though, I hope it helps.
I sit down and relax. I ask myself, if I could be anywhere doing anything, where and what would it be. I do this probably twice a day just to remind myself of what I’m trying to do with my life in the short term to get where I want in the long term. It also helps to write out what you have to do in order to succeed and then stick to it. This is a little strategy I picked up from a book. When I want to start or stop doing something, I think of it as already done. Such as “I stopped eating junk food, god isn’t that great that I’m done fattening myself up.” It works for anything and allows you to implement good habits much quicker.
Finally, most people have social goals. A woman, a lot of friends, a best friend. What they fail to do is actually work towards what they want. They think these are things that just happen, when they are things that require proactiveness and work, just like any other goal.
Hope that helps some